All the butterflies and the head rush that are usually there during the beginning of a romantic affair slowly wear off as times goes by and you find yourself wanting to take a step back from all that but not call things off yet. In almost all romantic relationships, the beginning stages are always filled with lots of chemistry and bonding that calls for the need to spend much time together. As time goes by, the feeling of slowing things down kicks in and makes it quite awkward and hard to say it as it might end up into a break-up. Being a victim of this is very normal and should not be a reason for you to beat yourself about it as with the right tips you can actually get to takes things a step back and not having to break up. The article below is about the things that you need to do so as to get to slow things down and not end up breaking things up.
The first thing to do during this endeavor is to think it over. For the fact that you are actually feeling overwhelmed by the whole thing and need to take a breather means that there is a problem somewhere and it needs to be addressed. Consider giving it a long thought so that you get to establish what it is that is the problem. If you are growing less fond of her by the day, be open with her and tell her about it giving her assurances. If it is still in you being with her then address then face the issue directly for the betterment of the relation.
The second thing that you need to do as you look to slow down the relationship rather than ending it is by talking things out with her. It us very important that you get to communicate than just talk and exchange words and pleasantries. As it is in the nature of ladies, it is normal to expect and experience tears and an uproar of emotions since she might get hurt by what you are telling her but you got to be honest and reassuring so that she does not get things in the wrong way.
Consider setting boundaries between you that are well defined so that things can remain slow and definite. Create boundaries of times you will be together and the times you will spend on yourself or with your boys and other friends.
After all this, you definitely need to be consistent to the boundaries that you set.